A quick, easy, fun read that may not make you lose weight, grow hair, become a millionaire or get elected president, but could change your life.

Life is not about finding yourself. It's about creating yourself. If only one of these fifty rules strikes a chord within you, the chances are great that you'll create a better self, and hopefully a better world around you. What have you got to lose?

I once observed two very stubborn people having a heated argument over something quite ridiculous. I’m sure you have seen the same thing. Neither was willing to give an inch, and so there they stood, toe-to-toe, staring each other down and screaming at the top of their lungs.

It would have been so easy (not to mention smart) for one of them to back down (not necessarily admitting defeat, mind you) and let the other rush on past in his anger. In fact, nothing makes an angry person look more foolish than to let them have their own (boisterous) way. Give in. In the big picture, does it really matter???
In the bullring the bull never wins. He gets more and more infuriated as the delicate and agile bullfighter taunts him as he harmlessly passes by just inches away. Finally, when the bullfighter chooses, the big, strong, angry, exhausted bull is quickly dispatched.

Do you really want to be the bull? End of story.